What Should I Do?

We are all familiar with the old adage, "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." I know I've certainly heard that more times than I care to remember. I never agreed with this sentiment because IN MY OPINION honesty holds more weight than niceness. People frequently become angry when I tell them it doesn't matter if it's nice or not if it's the truth. The truth doesn't have to be nice. It's the truth, that's all it needs to be. I now see why I was always told to not say anything as a child. 😂😂😂 As an adult I still battle with this. Now, let's be clear. I am in no way endorsing just speaking ill all willy nilly. However, what I am saying is that I will never go along with the popular or desired opinion if it isn't my true opinion. And I will say that it frequently presents a problem when I try new products. I try a lot of shit, but I only speak on the products I enjoy. So I am constantly asking myself if I'm doing a disservice to my followers by not telling the truths about the products I dislike. I mean, after all, just because I like a product, it doesn't mean other people will. 🤷🏽‍♀️ So I guess I should just spit it out. There are two products I've publicly said I would write a review on, but I am stuck because I don't have anything nice to say about either. So what the hell am I supposed to do? I think one of the products is just wrong and the other is false. WTF!!!! And as blatantly/brutally honest as I am, I can't bring myself to speak on products I don't like. Why even give it any energy at all? But again, I am brought back to the question; Am I doing my followers a disservice by not speaking my true opinion about products? What should I do? 😫😫😫


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